Sorry: You cant love a person that you don't flirt with!

Hello Married Men:
 
Do you still remember how you felt the first time you met that girl that you decided that you wanted to spend the rest of your life with?
 
 
When was the last time you felt that tingling all throughout your body, when you watch her sway as she walks?

 
How about that moment when you saw her play with her hair, as she turned and smiled at you for the first time, pulling you out of oblivion, making your heart miss a beat, and suddenly you were speechless, as if you had been struck by lightening?

 
Maybe, at some point of your married life, you saw someone else, and you think that that person made you relive a moment past. Don't get fooled: it's not the same. A macho can mate many, but a true man can only love once.
 
 
But if you experience some day that inner flare, exploding suddenly from within, there is nothing wrong with your instincts. You must go out again for the chase. Find that woman who can light up your inner bonfire. Just don't look in the wrong direction. She is already at home.


Really? She is there, playing with you, but nobody told you about the game? It's called "Hide and Seek". Of course you remember. You played it all the time as a child. And that women you fell in love with is hiding in your home. She has a closet full of disguises. Some days she puts on her disguise as a "housewife". Other days, she puts on her "mother of your children disguise".
 
The problem is that we let circumstances convert the princess into a taskmaker.

The purpose of this blog is to help us all, we men,  master that game of hide and seek, and find that girl you lost, somewhere behind the piles of dirty laundry and dishes. We will need your comments. And why not? The comments of women? Especially married women? They are the veterans of this game, a friendly and fun game, that when not played correctly, can turn into a war. A war with wounded in action, and where casualties are called divorced.

If you do not find that girl, flirt with her, win her over, you can never be happily married. At best, you will be stranded on a deserted island, with a perfect stranger every night in your bed.

 

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